Is it okay for girls to call the guys after a date? Well that question can have many answers. Some men say that they would like the girl to call them anytime, but does that make them plain lazy? Hmmm... But lets say she did call him anyway, then wouldn't that just automatically give him the upper hand because she's the one calling him, wanting him? Maybe that's why most women end up like this women pictured on the right.
You can have the best date with this guy but there's never really any way of knowing if he's really going to call you back or what he's really interested in. And because of this is why sex on the first date should strictly be prohibited. Think about it, if he gets you where he wants you right away, he'll be done with you faster then you can get dressed! He'll then go "on to the next one". I've noticed that when you wait, it makes a guy want you more. There's just something about it. They want what they can't have, it's all about playing hard to get, girls!
We need to smarten up about these boys and find out what is really going on with them! How they really think about us, what they really say. I think there's a lot if stuff that goes on everyday in the average relationship that us women don't know about their significant other. Don't get me wrong if your in a great relationship by all means, be happy! But the rest of us need to watch out. Guys are assholes!
You can even find yourself in a worse situation if you get too wound up with a particular guy because he just doesn't call you back fast enough and you end up calling him ten times a day. It happens to most of us! We can either have the power to make a guy beg for you, or to be the bothersome one. We just have to know how to work these guys and stay one or two steps ahead of them. Don't allow yourself to be played, you play them. I know it's really hard when a guys got you down in the dumps, but think to yourself, how did I end up this way in the first place? And what will I do to prevent this in the future? If you do not ask yourself those questions it will more than likely keep happening to you.
When you finally find out you can work these guys, you'll have them eating out of your palm, (;
